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Diary Of A New Mum - Week 5
White noise
I was watching Jess sleep just now and I
had a sudden flash-back to the birth. Right now she is on her play-mat by my
feet, fast asleep with her dummy in her mouth, looking angelic – and I can
picture so clearly the moment she slithered out of my body after hours and hours
of pushing. I don’t remember hearing her cry but I’m pretty sure she did. The
next minute she was wrapped in a towel for warmth and then placed in my arms,
skin to skin. I can see her face now – tiny and red and wet and sticky with
these huge dark eyes just gazing up at me. And there was I, sore, tired and
shell-shocked, staring right back at her.
It’s good to remember those special
moments. It helps you get through the tougher moments. This week Jess’s colic
has stepped up a gear and we’re really struggling to cope. At the moment we’re
trying Infacol, which is something you give before their milk that’s supposed to
release trapped wind. No effect as yet.
What we have discovered is the magic of
white noise! Paul’s mom swears by it for helping her sleep, so we sent off for
this ‘Stop-Crying’ pack we saw on the Internet, which consists of a tape-player
and three tapes of recorded white-noise sounds. Jess’s favorite seems to be the
lawn-mower at the moment (the tape-player is wedged against her ear just now).
It seems to work when she’s crying for
no apparent reason. (There is a reason, of course, it’s just that we don’t know
what it is. I don’t believe babies cry for nothing.) When she’s not hungry and
her nappy is clean, and she’s not bored and she’s well cuddled, and you just
can’t think of another thing to try – white noise seems to work.
Partly thanks to Paul’s mom (who has
fostered loads of babies and was horrified that we still had to feed Jess eight
times a day), we are now down to six feeds a day and Jess can go for six hours
between feeds at night. Oh, joy! This means we’re getting a much longer chunk of
sleep and we are feeling better for it. My sense of humor has returned. Which is
just as well – Paul is going back to work next week and I’ll have to manage
entirely on my own for the first time…
I weighed myself today. No, I’m not
telling. And no, I’m not happy. I figured out I have 51 pounds to lose to get to
my ideal weight. If I lost a pound a week that would take a year! Okay, maybe my
ideal weight is a little unrealistic, but I can hope, can’t I? I made the fatal
error of trying on some of my pre-pregnancy clothes. Don’t do it! Even if you
are running out of clothes that fit you, don’t make the mistake of thinking that
some of your old, baggy stuff might fit again. It won’t. Just go out and buy
some more. You deserve it.
Lovely stuff this week: Jessica-Ann gave
us her first proper smile this week, and also lifted and turned her head from
one side to the other.
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