A new generation of men are redefining fatherhood and masculinity.
According to census figures, one in four dads takes care of his
preschooler during the time the mother is working. The number of
children who are raised by a primary-care father is more than 2 million
and rising. And fathers who work full time are more involved in their
children's lives. According to the Families and Work Institute in New
York City, dads now provide up to three-fourths of the child care
mothers do, up from one-half 30 years ago.
A father's presence makes a big difference in a child's long-term
development, say psychologists at the University of California,
Riverside. Children with involved dads regulate their own emotions
better. They have better social skills, and more success in school.
A father's influence comes through the unique ways they play and
interact with kids. Kids who interact with their fathers are more likely
to tolerate frustration and master tasks on their own before asking for
help.
Quoted in Psychology Today, psychologists at the University of
Connecticut say a father's love may be the best gift he can give. Their
40-year study shows it to be a significant buffer against depression and
conduct problems.
There is already a mountain of research showing that kids without a
father in the picture are at a higher risk for school dropout, drug use,
teen pregnancy, delinquency, and suicide.
To all of our fathers, we say, "Thanks Dad," your love and caring are
important factors in bringing the next generation successfully into
adulthood.
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Holidays The list was long. This holiday season, I'd be buying presents,
coordinating family visits, updating lists and writing cards, doing
decorations outside the house and in,
volunteering, running a business, etc., etc.
There are times when it all seems like too much...
